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Sunday, December 23, 2012

What a World We Live In.....SMH


SunShyne B.@CanAgirl2
Why is Money more valuable than Family & Friendship?
Why is it when people bring up GOD or Praying they look around to see who is listen what a world we live in when GOD becomes a bad word. SMH
Why do some parents treat their kids like crap then wonder why they grow up to be dysfunctional adults....smh

Saturday, December 22, 2012


Tomorrow try a few new things:

Say Good Morning to everyone in your household.

Hold the door for someone without expecting a "Thank You" in return

Smile at someone!

Tell someone something Nice about them!

Help someone find something if they ask you don't just reply "I don't Know"

If someone is on the corner asking for spare change "offer them a meal instead" however you feel comfortable giving it to them.

If you are hungry try eating something Healthy!

If you smoke try to cut back!

If you drink a lot of alcohol try drinking just a beer.

If you don't like to cook "Try to cook something simple" especially if you own a CROCK POT (USE IT)!!!

These are just a few examples of doing something out of the Ordinary that will make a huge difference in your lives!!!

-SunShyne B.


Wednesday, December 12, 2012







                   ENJOY YOUR HOLIDAY SEASON!!!!

Monday, December 10, 2012


Today I saw the sickest thing I ever saw on the Internet. There is a video floating around that shows two grown women encouraging a young kid that looks no older than 3 years old to do sexual moves on them and although this child had on a diaper to me it still was very inappropriate. These women were cheering him on, laughing, moaning, and coaching him to do things no child should do. I am not sure where this video started or why parents would do that to their child. If I knew how to report it I would. I hope and pray these women be brought to justice. People must understand that there are other forms of child abuse besides hitting and that is sexual, mental, and emotional abuse they are inflicting on this poor child. Where the Heck is the Department of Children and Family when you need them. I hope and pray that adults start taking more responsibility for their actions when it comes to what they install in their children. How can anyone think this is funny, cute, or acceptable. Technology should not be used to harm people or to expose our youth to inappropriate behavior. I can not believe that with all the technology we have a video like that would even make it on websites. There use to be restrictions on videos you can post on social media website but I guess not anymore! Its sad because our kids will never have a chance at innocence as long as their are cruel people in this world that will continue to steal it away from them. I just pray that things will change soon because our future depends on our youth and if they are continuously put in harms way by being mentally, physically,emotionally, and sexually abused then we will not have a future. They will be too afraid to live life and I am not just talking out of my ass I am speaking from experience I was one of those children and it lead to a pattern of self destruction and it takes a lot of praying, counseling, and time to try to heal from that type of abuse but in all reality you never get over it you just learn to take it one day at a time. Once your trust is gone its hard to get it back 100% so the people that want to love and treat you right don't get 100% of the person you are because that innocence has been taken away! God Bless the people that have to live with these memories although its sad just know that you are not alone in your struggle and that it is possible to find and surround yourself with people that wouldn't cause you such pain.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012




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Monday, December 3, 2012

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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

What Makes Life so Great During Tough Times?

The love for you family, your passion for learning new things can keep your life from seeming too complicated. We all go through hard times and something as simple as learning how to open yourself you to new hobbies, books, games, music, and people can change your outlook on how bad you think your life is or can be. If you never enjoyed dancing before start dancing now, if you don't like to read try starting with something small, if you never liked sports try to start playing little by little its amazing how a little change in your daily activities can change the way you look at life. If you work all the time just to pay your bills and never take any of your money to do something for yourself start now but start small you will be surprised at the outcome. I work and take care a family and always felt like I didn't do anything for myself so I started getting pedicures every two weeks for $33.00 I get a back message, my feet rubbed, meet new people, get the feeling of spending money out of the way, and most of all I get to relax. Its not about the nail color its about taking time to do something for me because I take care of my responsibilities. Just like when you were a child and you did good you got rewarded don't ever forget that feeling because everyone need to feel like the deserve a surprise, gift, or a relaxing moment and if you sit around waiting for someone else to make it happen for you, you will be waiting forever! If you like to shop but feel you can't afford it start small buy yourself a gift such as a shirt, pair of pants, underwear, socks, or even book trust me it makes a difference. Don't continue to put yourself on the back burner no matter what but it is important that you put your priorities first so that you deserve to be rewarded. I write this because I feel that we focus too much on our tough times and not enough on the importance of the lives we can have if we just made a few simple changes.    I hope that people truly understand the message of this blog and start making the small changes they need to start living their lives to the fullest during these tough times.

With Love, SunShyne B.

Sunday, November 25, 2012


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Thursday, November 22, 2012

Giving Thanks

Today is a day we all come together with friends, family, neighbors, and the list can go on and on. Today is a day that we all give thanks for all that we have and all that we have been through no matter good or bad.
Today is a day of gratitude and appreciation for those we love including Our Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ so make the most of this day.......

Love, SunShyne B.

Saturday, November 10, 2012

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Thursday, November 1, 2012


I write my blogs in the hopes of helping someone who is struggling through life's decision, lessons, and situations. I want the people reading my blogs to connect with what I am writing in a personal way. I am not just writing a blog just to write, I will never write anything I feel is not true. Me writing my blog is a way to express myself and my inner thoughts knowing that there are people out there that are looking forward to reading my blogs daily and over the past few weeks I have not been as dedicated to writing as I should be. I too have moment of weakness and discouragement but with my faith I will always raise again and so can you. I know a lot of you don't know me personal but by reading my blogs you know my heart and my love for this thing we call life and although my life is not perfect it is mine and I choose to make the most of it and I hope in some way my blogs have encouraged you too.  -SunShyne B.

Friday, October 26, 2012

Your Past vs. Your Future

You may do things when you are younger and sometimes those things will follow you throughout your life but it is OK. Your past has made you the person you are today and if you don't like the person you are find a way to start making changes. We all have done things that we may not like or we may never share with another soul because it is so out of character or too embarrassing but it shouldn't define your entire life don't allow a mistake you made in your past to control your future.

-SunShyne B.


Thursday, October 18, 2012

Finding Happiness

Over the years I have learned that you can't look to others to make you happy. You have to find that happiness that you are yearning for within yourself, but you have to be willing to let go of all the BS in order to find true happiness. -SunShyne B.

Monday, October 15, 2012

Don't Cry About it Just Do it!

Every day I hear people complaining about the things they have to do in life and you know what I am sick of it!

You are luck you have the ability to move around and do things on your own.

You should be grateful that you have money to do groceries,


buy clothes, shoes, and necessities.

 You should be happy to live and see another day, so instead of crying and complaining how about you count your blessing and handle your business because there are people in this world that are wishing they had the very same opportunities that you are complaining about. Remember there is always someone out there that has it worse than you do. - SunShyne B.

Friday, October 12, 2012

What do you do when your heart is broken?

When your heart is broken how are you suppose to handle it?

Are you suppose to break down and cry?


Are you suppose to handle it gracefully?

Are you suppose to sit back and wait it out?

Are you suppose to scream and shout?

What do you do when your heart is broken? You pick up the pieces and find a way to mend it so that you can allow your heart to beat again!

-SunShyne B.

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Nightly Thought

Spending time with your kids is an amazing thing you get to learn them as individuals.

I know as parents we think we know our kids but we don't not until we spend quality time with them.


 I don't mean just being in the same room as them I mean talking to them, listening to them, watching them, playing with them, and letting them ask you questions and you giving honest answers back.
Don't just tell them what you think they want or should hear always be honest it goes a long way.

Some parents are afraid that if they are honest with their kids they will just use it against them when they get older. Maybe they will but so what learn to live with the truth. It is better than making them think you are perfect only to find out you are just as human as they are and probably have made the same mistakes they have if not worse. Because then it will cause them to resent you.

Don't build a false relationship with your kids!!!!

-SunShyne B.

Thursday, October 4, 2012


Romance is a very important part of a relationship it doesn't matter who initiates it, all that matters is that you keep the romance in your relationship alive because when it fades it takes away from what can be.

Romance isn't everything in a relationship but is the way you show your mate you are still head over heels in love with them.

Romance is important because in all relationships there are bad times and although romance don't erase all the problems it reminds you of why you fell in love in the first place romance is the reminder of love that all couples need. -SunShyne B.


Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Role Models


    Don't Be a False Leader For Our Youth
They become what they hear!
 They become what they see!
       They Become You

 Your influence on this world matters!