How can we work together to improve the character of our community, so many negative things are happening I see it on the news everyday mothers , fathers, sisters, brothers, aunty's, grandmothers, and our children are falling victim to this growing negativity. We can all sit back and spectulate or gossip and criticize but what are we going to do to make a difference? If we just sit back and do nothing we are part of the problem! Its time to come together to figtht together as a community to protect our children and their future. -SunShyne B.
When two people committ their lives to one another and take the step into marriage it is a wonderful thing, it doen't matter if other people approve of that love as long as they love each other.
Yesterday I spent my day at 6 Flags with my family, at first I didn't want to go was tired and feeling lazy but my husband said it would be nice to get out of the house so I got dressed and we headed out. Once we got there we went to the Water Park and OMG I felt like a kid playing in the water, chasing my children around, riding on rides, and laughing at my husband trying to win me a BIG STUFFED ANIMAL hey I didn't get the animal but I did get the PRIZE of seeing my family happy! Family time is so important it builds a life time of memories and nobody feels neglected.
Its amazing to see your children growing up right before your face. They have so many standards to live up to and that is scary and confusing for them. We put a lot of pressure on our children to "be all they can" because we want the best for them, but when they reach a certain age we sometimes have to step back and trust that we installed good qualities in them. They want to know that we believe in them, of course they are going to make mistakes as did we, but that is the only way they can learn how to become who they are. Constant Communication is vital! I talk to my children at multiple times during the day just to check in and see where their mind is, when they feel like you care they will open up more. We think they know how we feel because we are their parents, unfortunately because of our daily tasks in life we often forget to express our love through action. Find time to spend with your children no matter how old they get install in them the importance of FAMILY!!!!
Everyday there is something that is going to happen that you can't control, you can let it stress you out or you can brush it off and say "I'm not going to let this bring down my spirits, let me do something fun to take my mind off of the BS" trust me it helps!!!!!
The next morning De’sia woke me up by shaking her bottle
of milk on my face and giggling. “Oh you
are so luck I love you”! I sat up yawned, stretched, looked around then
grabbed De’sia so I could change her pamper. The sun was just coming up and Michael was up
getting ready for his first game, Ma was still sleep and Mo was still nowhere
to be found.
Michael, do you know where Mo went she hasn’t been here
all night the baby was crying so I had to get up and take care of her.
Nope, haven’t seen
her! Qui, you coming to my game right!
Of Course fool, I wouldn’t
miss it don’t be mad if Mo don’t show up and I have to bring De’sia.
It’s cool, she just better show up before Ma wake up. Mo
is really pressing her luck.
I know, Michael it’s like she had De’sia but we are her
parents I love my niece but I’m getting tired of this shit.
All of a sudden there was a tap on the kitchen window, I
walked over to find Mo’ standing on the stairs I thought about leaving her ass
out there but I opened the door.
Mo’ where the hell you been all night De’sia
woke up crying and I had to get her so she wouldn’t wake up Ma. I’m tired of
covering for you, you always say you aren’t going to leave her anymore then you
walk out. You should have told us, but instead it’s like you force us to watch
Qui, calm the fuck
I said calm the fuck
down, stop getting loud before you wake up Ma.
Bitch, I’ll calm
down when you start being a good mother to your daughter and stop leaving her
every twenty minutes.
Qui, you better shut
If I don’t what are
you going to do? I’m tired of staying shut, nothing ever get done when you do
shit! We got things we want and have to do but can’t because you’re always
leaving De’sia. Tell me what is so important that you leave your baby; Ma never
left any of us.
Qui, you have no
idea how it is to have someone stuck to you 24/7.
Yes I do, Thanks to
you and she is your daughter NOT MINE!
Quiana, I know that
but sometimes I just need a BREAK!
Then why can’t you
just ask? Why be slick about it, then it just looks like your trying to shit on
us like screw them they don’t have shit to do.
Damn it’s not even
like that! Qui, why you making such a big deal about it, what you got your
period or something?
We all struggle in life to find our identity, worth, and purpose! Along the way we make mistakes, nobody is perfect :) I created the "Can a Girl Get a Break" book series as a reminder that becoming an adult doesn't happen over night, we all go through the growth process some of us take longer than others but at the end of the day we all are just looking to be loved and accepted by our friends and family. -SunShyne B.
Love is on my mind :) It feels good to know the feeling of love. Can you imagine what this world would be like without LOVE. The Love that comes from your family, friends, and spouse is unconditional and its what keeps people going. Without LOVE we would all be empty so lets keep LOVE in our hearts and minds! -SunShyne B.
Don't fear the "unknown" :) We have to live in the moment because we only get one life and running from the "unknown" can hold us back in so many ways. I have always been afraid of the "unknown" but over the years I learned it is important to go through unknown stuff in life because it helps prepare you for anything and everything without loosing control. Everything isn't always perfect so your strength in handling the unknow will continue to grow!
Dreams are things that we hold internal and Goals are real and have to be worked at.
When you have a dream it is important to make it a reality so you can achieve all your goals!
I dreamed of becoming a writer one day, I dreamed of having a beautiful family one, I dream of feeling proud of myself one day, I dreamed a dream and made it a reality and now I am truly happy!
Opening up your heart is a choice that you make but if you choose to keep your heart closed you are missing out on the greatest feeling ever, there is nothing like being in LOVE and having someone LOVE you back. When you run from love it shows a fear of letting people in and also being submissive, a lot of us have the same fears when it comes to love, but you have to look at it like a PLAYGROUND you go because you want to have fun, you know the areas that you enjoy most and run straight to them and the ones you don't like you avoid completely...lol. We have to make wise decisions when it comes to the heart and who we let play with it. -SunShyne B.
My heart and prayers go out to all the people in the world that have never gotten the chance to feel independant. The feeling of feeling like the property of another person is not good, there were times in my life I had this feeling but I have been blessed enough to find my freedom. I understand it is not that easy for others so i ask that we continue to say prayers for those who are searching for their freedom still. -SunShyne B.