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Thursday, September 27, 2012


What situations are we suppose to compromise? Sometimes we are faced with situations in which we are not sure how to handle. We want to stick to our guns and stand strong because we think if we bend or give up that will make us weak and vulnerable.

I myself have this flaw but what I have learned over the years is that compromising does not make you weak or vulnerable it makes you stronger especially in a relationship.
It's easy to give up and not try so that you get your way and in the end not have to compromise and just because you get your doesn't make you right.

It is all so complicated but love is worth the fight. If you get your way you will never grow and never learn how to consider the needs of others. Compromising teaches you not to be selfish it doesn't mean you have to give up your beliefs, morals, or values.

Just think would you want to be in a relationship with someone that was not willing to compromise the answer is "No" because it will only lead to despise.
So the next time you are second guessing on whether to compromise just make sure it's something your heart can override. -SunShyne B.

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